Children

Take a little time to read ! :D Parents ! Even if your children did something wrong, you can scold them for what they did but please don't ever bring up the past thing they did ! It is just like a knife stabbed in the children's heart again and again, just like putting salt unto the wound and being hurt is not fun thing ! Especially for children, because they have no one to talk in, they will just keep everything in their heart and they will create a world for themselves - a world that they won't be hurt. And they will shut their world to you and eventually to the world. And it is not easy for a children to walk out their own little world, if their own parents doesn't support them ! I know in the past you all have all difficult things to handle, like studying and working to support the family, but every person have different talents, different skill. You can study and work at the same time but that doesn't make your children able to do it. Yes you can compare, but can you think of your children feeling ? Can you phrase your word ? And words are also weapons ! .... Like - You are useless! - Are you stupid ? - I told you many time already right ? Why you just don't understand ?! - You are a shame to the family And etc etc . Why don't you change it to words that encourage them? Even they look strong on the outside they might be crying inside. 外表坚强但是心在哭. Kids that are more emotional will cry out, very easy and normally you just think they are reflecting on what they did wrong, but they actually cried because of the words you say. I cannot control my emotion well and when my mother scolded me, say that I am a shame to the family, i totally lost control, I lost all my control of telling myself not to cry no matter what. And my mother just ignore me and walk away, as a teen, those word are sharp knife for me. Not just because my mother walked away, but because she deny everything I did, even my existence, yes I am not a good kid. But i changed , I changed my attitude, I changed my behavior, and my mother still deny me. She still ignore me. So what can I do ? Commit Suicide ? Runaway? That also why some teen run away from from home, I wish i did, but I have no money and no place to stay ~ hahas .... And even if your children have good friends that they will talk about almost everything, but it doesn't means they will talk about the deep hurting things. Even theres a counsellor to help them, some children won't talk openly to them. As they will be embarrass. Not that the counsellor is useless, but because what the kid want is you, is you to listen what they need and want and help them, a counsellor can only do to some point, they cannot do everything for the kid, cos the counsellor can give the kid the Mother/Father's love that they need. Even if the counsellor is very kind and caring, they will just be a kind person to them, they can never be their parents. Only you ! Their parents, they will talk openly. Because 你要面子，他们也要. And you as their parent, they will feel safe in talk about everything. Please think about the feeling of children even though they are teen, For them you are the home they return to, please don't hurt them so much that they shut this home out ! You have your problem, your children also have their problems ! And no matter what, no matter now angry you are with them, don't ever say say " I am not your Mother/Father anymore" because once you say that, the last hope for the children to exit door of their own shut in world is completely close! And its more hard to make them come out. Because for them "I am not your Mother/Father anymore" equals to their "home" which is You, does not want them anymore and it equals to they have no place to return. And when your children say "You are no longer my Mother/Father" you don't have the rights to be angry with them, because they simply accepted what you said. And thats normally where all the trouble come .... - Skipping School - Drugs - Smoking - Drinking - Glue-sniffing And etc etc because they wanna find a place to return to, so they will find all sorts of friends that will accept them, and some friends will lead them to do things they shouldn't. And when your children does not talk back to you when you are scolding them, it doesn't means you are right, it is just they choose not to. For me, I choose to ignore because I know if I talk back, we will be quarreling whole day long. Sometime when my mother say things that I didn't do, I kept quiet. But the knife stabbing in my heart goes deeper and deeper, since my own mother does not believe in me. Which I think it is the same for every children ! And when they reach the limit, they will burst and they become more and more rebellious and then sayonara, because you will think of sending them into Girl's Home and Boy's home . Sometime when a kid become all sticky to you, might be because they wants your attention, we as children know that you parents have no choice but to work, especially in this society. They are not so dumb, but maybe you can show them a little love? They will be very happy, please don't shout at them like "不要吵啦，我在做工"="don't be noisy ! I am working" ... Ahaha they will feel sad D: a kid heart is fragile, but they recover fast, show them some love, show them your sweetness ! Signing off, Ashley Koh #parents #kids #children #wordsareweapon #trouble

What a wonderful mother you are Teo Gek Choo ! Because you want to buy a new home in Malaysia, you don't help your daughter who wants to go Switzerland to complete her degree. Oh well its your money, how you want to use is you problem. But now, because you need more money to buy that house you wanted, knowing your daughter is saving up for the Switzerland trip, your ask her to return you the money she borrowed from you ? What a wonderful caring ways you have ! Even her friends are trying to help her, her cousin trying to help her, you ? Asking her to return the money she had borrowed from you to buy study materials when she was still young, such a calculative mother you are ! You say you want her to be independent, this is not the way ! Angela Teo Gek Choo, hahahas angel ? I say you a a devil !

Waa ~ dead blog le xD
hahas !

surfing e net dunneo what to do ==
any recommendation ?
oh ya , found some nice songs on youtube (instrumental)
hahas <3 super in love with it <3 !

arg arg arg arg
i wanna kill her ! keep scolding scolding scolding
HELLO i'm human okay !
i'm not heartless de !
you are the heartless one in the family !
you think you wat ?
god? like hell la
think of other people's feeling !
they are not ROBOT !
ningen desu yo !
kesobaba !

MERRY CHRISTMAS !!!~


Arg im hungry -_-"

Lols ... here i updated Nadeshiko.....

hahas xD copied from ur blog lols

lets go out someday !

Rules:

1. Put your music library on shuffle.

2. For each question, press the next button to get your answer.

3. You must write that song title as the answer to the question, no matter how silly it sounds! Most of the time they seem to work though, strangely enough.

4. Ok, go!

5.Put comments after each song you get.

Questions:

1. If someone says, "shelf", you say?

Fly High Sky High (P.O.T)
(Random ?)

2. How would you describe yourself?

Let It Out (FMA)
(-.- let out my anger?)

3. What do you like in a guy/girl?

Shining Ray (OP)
(LOLs)

4. How do you feel today?

God Knows (Suzumiya)
(hmp .. correct o.0 )

5. What is your life's purpose?

Tsuna Life (KHR)
(-.-)

6. What's your motto?

Dear My Friend (Elisa)
(was it)

7.What do your friends think of you?

Michishirube (KHR)
(Lols -.-)

8. What do you think of your parents?

U&I (K-On)

(NO !!!)

9. What do you think about very often?

Horizon (KHR)
(Horizon huh....)

10. What is 2 + 2?

Wind (Naruto)
(hahas XD didnt know)

11. What do you think of your best friend?

Dive to World (KHR)
(hahahas XD dive huh . i drown first)

12. What do you think of the person you like?

Tsunaida Te (FMA)
(hmpp ... abit wrong ?)

13. What is your life story?

Shoujo S (Scandal)
(Hahahahas XD -_-")

14. What do you want to be when you grow up?

Footprint in the Sand (H2O)
(Foot Print -.-)

15. What do you think of when you see the person you like?

Believe (OP)
(hmp believe huh)

16. What will you dance to at your wedding?

Arashi no Ouji (KHR BEL)
(hmp so bloody XD )

17. What will they play at your funeral?

Bloody Prince (KHR BEL)
(muHAHAHAHAS XD Bel <3 so bloody again)

18. What is your biggest fear?

D-Tecnolife (Bleach)
(Wow..)

19. What is your biggest secret?

Wonderful Days (P.O.T.)
(WTH-.-)

20. What will you post this as?

Mai Kaze (Hakuouki)
(-.- breeze)

Check it out!!:)

u stupid bitch . dunneo how to use touch screen phone dun use !
its only wasting time . ~~
keep asking people how to use . u ask people must teach ar ?
u keep on ignore me when i'm asking u question .
why must i answer urs ?
dunneo how to use . go check the user book la .
u teach me de . follow whats on the book !
dun keep asking people .
what if no people around u ?
what u gonna do huh ?
irritating bitch . fu*king get lost la!

hiias . i need to cool off my head . >_<"
she is getting more and more irritating day by day .
DO IGNORE THE "EMPTY" TOP .
too much ** le LOLs .
really irritated and piss off .
hiias . . nowadays she gettin more and more ***king
what should i do ? move out ?
unable to ignore her now forever .
almost shout back at her today AGAIN
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WEE ~~ Shinichi <3 Hattori <3 Kaito Kid <3
hahas ~ now crazy about Detective Conan .
i finally reach 300+ hahahas XD
episode 383 . Hattori <3
hope Hattori and Kid can appear more .
and some about the black organization
and finally . Jie give me the 2GB memory card <3
I LOVE YOU <3 ~

ah so long nvr blog le .
update update . . .

hiias . as usual ?
almost everyday mood go down to e lowest level by the bitch ...
my curse won't work.
what should i do ???
hiias put this aside ba .

im currently reading Full Metal Alchemist as the anime load SLOWLY for me
my eyes feel sour reading e whole day
ok . i have change my number to 9899 2369
do update your contact list (: thanks
i have LOST ALL MY CONTACT >.< SOBS

Luffy ~ he declared he's gonna be the Pirate King at the battlefield
muhahahas .XD somemore is to WB . his cute <3

bored bored . Michelle haven reach cwp . ...
post til here ba .
no mood . darn e bitch